Finding the Right Fit: Live-In Care for Your Loved One

Finding the Right Fit: Live-In Care for Your Loved One

In this conversation, Luca Rado, co-founder of The Live In Care Company, speaks with Kathleen and Anthea, sisters who use the company’s services to provide live in care for their mother. Their experience offers valuable insights for families considering live in care for their elderly loved ones.

Why Live-In Care?

Kathleen and Anthea initially had carers visit their mother for short periods throughout the day. However, as their mother’s needs increased, these visits became insufficient. They realised their mother needed constant supervision due to fall risks and memory issues associated with dementia. A nursing home stay wasn’t ideal as their mother desired to remain at home for as long as possible. Live-in care emerged as the perfect solution, providing their mother with the necessary care and companionship in the familiar comfort of her own home.

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Key Considerations When Choosing Live In Care

• Compatibility and Communication: Kathleen highlights the importance of a carer who interacts well with the family and keeps them informed. Mavis, their current carer, excels in this area, keeping them updated and demonstrating a good sense of humour.
• Continuity of Care: Disruptions caused by frequent carer changes can be unsettling for some clients. Kathleen emphasises the benefit of longer stays by the same carer, which Mavis provides.
• Personality and Skills: The right carer should possess a blend of essential qualities. Patience, as Kathleen mentions, is crucial when dealing with someone like their mother who may have challenging moments. Additionally, the ability to drive and participate in activities their loved one enjoys is a plus.

The Live-In Care Company’s Role

Kathleen expresses appreciation for the company’s attentiveness and responsiveness. The team have always addressed any concerns raised by the sisters and ensured a good fit between their mother and the carer. The company’s vetting process, including identifying red flags, provides families with peace of mind.

Advice for Families Considering Live-In Care

• Be Prepared for Adjustments: Kathleen acknowledges that there might be a learning curve. The initial carer may not be the perfect match, and open communication with the care company is essential for adjustments.
• Realistic Expectations: Kathleen advises families to manage expectations. While safety and basic needs are paramount, unexpected benefits can emerge, like shared hobbies or simply enjoying each other’s company.
• Trust and Communication: Open communication is key. Families should feel comfortable voicing concerns and collaborating with their care company to find the best solution for their loved one.

Live-in care can be an excellent option for seniors who require full-time assistance while staying in their own homes. This conversation emphasises the importance of finding a compatible carer who can provide not only physical care but also companionship and emotional support. By carefully considering their needs and working with a reputable care company, families can ensure a positive experience for their loved ones.